subtitle by ++++ SonOfGotham ++++
Based on True Lies
Halo?
Nai Nai, Hai!
Billi!
It's midnight, why aren't you sleeping?
Sleep? It's only a 12 hour difference here.
Isn't it 7 am in China?
Almost 7:30!
Is it cold there?
Are your clothes warm enough?
Are you wearing a hat?
Yes.
Don't worry, Nai Nai!
You have to be careful.
Grandma reads the news.
in New York, people steal earrings.
They snatched it!
Then the victim had to go to the hospital for surgery.
I don't wear earrings.
So you heard too.
What sound is that?
Where's Grandma?
Grandma at your father's aunt's house.
What are you doing?
I want to go to mom and dad's house...
Is there time to save marine life?
Wait a minute, Nai Nai.
Well.
I want to be a little fierce, but...
My job used to be like this.
What happened? You're fired?
I stopped!
Because I'm going to be fired.
Who is that, Billy?
Just my friend.
What's that?
It's nothing.
Grandma will call again later, okay?
Okay.
Yes, call me again, Nai Nai...
Nai Nai?
Where's my sister?
He's with the doctor.
All right, Sis. Come on.
Have you spoken to the doctor?
Yes. You're very healthy.
Really?
How was the CT scan result?
What about the flecks they've seen?
It's clean.
It turned out to be nothing.
Only benign tumors.
Benign tumors? What does it mean?
That's what the doctor said.
You're healthy. Let's go home, Sis.
One day, the wife was out of town.
When she came home, the husband said,
"Honey, the cat is dead."
Then he said, "Why are you suddenly saying this?
You have to be careful when you deliver bad news."
For example, "Honey,
the cat, go up to the roof."
And...
now...
a few months later, the wife went out of town again.
When she returned, her husband greeted her again.
But this time, he had learned a lesson.
And when the wife arrived, she said,
"Honey, your mother, she's up on the roof."
How did you get in here?
- Nai Nai? - Billy!
Sorry for hanging up.
No problem. What is it?
There is not anything.
You spilled.
You spilled!
Ooh!
Parental base. He's so clumsy.
Grandma Mr. Li?
I shouldn't have agreed to live with him.
Nai Nai ...
He won't hear either.
The slide came.
Why is grandma still with him?
It's been years.
It's better than living alone.
At least someone's home.
Otherwise, if you go to the bathroom...
you will only see your own reflection.
Son ...
do you have friends?
I have many friends, Nai Nai.
I mean special friend grandma.
You're alone. Grandma is worried about you.
New York is a huge city.
...so I regret to inform you that your application was unsuccessful...
By?
You are okay?
I'm fine.
Just tired.
If you're tired, just sleep!
Okay.
I love you, Nai Nai.
Grandma loves you.
For what month?
This month? May?
How is april
My mom says you haven't paid April.
You know, if you move now,
can we double the rent?
So why, are you broke again?
You always live like this?
Poor but sexy, I want.
Why don't you save?
You have to change your expensive lifestyle.
Mom, if you continue to advise me...
every time I go home, I don't want to go home again.
Lower your voice. Dad is sleeping.
Sleep? It's 6 pm. What is up with her?
Nothing. He's just tired.
Is he healthy?
He's healthy, we're just too busy.
What are you busy doing? What is it?
Hao Hao is getting married, so we have to go to China.
What? When?
Didn't he just date that woman?
You don't have to come.
Nobody expects you to come.
He's my only cousin.
Shouldn't I be there?
Fine.
Do you think her mother got her pregnant?
How many wontons do you want ?
Lima.
Five? That's not enough.
Then a dozen.
Ten only.
Well.
What's the matter, dad?
It does not matter.
Dad and mom arguing?
Daddy drink?
Please tell me what's wrong.
Dad scares me.
There must be something.
Just say it.
Nai Nai-mu is seriously ill.
He has stage four lung cancer.
Doctor said 3 months left.
Could be faster, unpredictable.
- I have to call him. - Do not.
- I have to see him. - Do not.
He doesn't know.
According to the family, it is better not to tell him.
So you can't say anything.
I do not understand.
When he stays for a while, he should know, right?
They can do nothing.
So decided better not to tell him.
Why is it better?
There is a Chinese proverb:
"When people get cancer, they die."
It's not cancer that kills them, it's fear.
Okay, when are you guys going to tell me?
Why are you telling me like this?
So what should I do? "Oh, your grandma's up on the roof"?
How about the wedding?
Marriage is just an excuse so everyone can see it
We left early in the morning.
I have to go.
Billie.
I have to go.
Everyone thinks you better not come.
Look at you.
You can't hide your emotions.
If you come, Nai Nai will know right away.
Happy birthday Happy birthday
Happy birthday Tony Happy birthday
Who's that?
It's me, Billy.
Who?
Tan. Li?
Billi.
By?
Son, how did you get here?
Hurry, come in!
Give it to me.
- Billi! - Huh?
Billy is back...
Billi, you stupid kid!
Come here, grandma see first.
You're not that skinny!
Your mom says you're skinny...
but it turns out not so.
Oh, my grandson.
Why didn't you say you were coming?
Grandma calls you all day.
But you didn't answer!
Your mother said you were very busy so you didn't come.
What is it?
Why are you silent?
I miss grandma.
Grandma knows.
How did you get here? Fly?
I swim.
You should have called first.
Stupid kid, just tease!
This little round ass has n't changed!
Grandma always likes to hold it!
Nai Nai is small.
Billi!
I made meat pies. You must be hungry.
I remember this was your favorite as a kid.
This is Mrs. Gao.
Halo.
You're the grandson!
You're home too.
- Yes. - Nice.
The last time you were here, Mrs. Jin is still there.
I remember Mrs. Mom?
Mrs. Mom? That was 4 maids ago.
Has it been that long since you came home?
No kidding, the oil is hot.
Don't be mad, ma'am.
Where do you get the money to buy tickets?
Kartu kredit, kan?
Mom, I'm okay.
Look at my face, look.
Bring it to the table.
It's been a long time since we've gathered like this.
Is it more than 20 years?
At least.
Haiyan went to America 25 years ago.
Bill is only 6 years old.
And Haibin went to Japan after that.
Been a long time.
Time elapsed.
It's just ripe. Eat while hot.
Look at grandma 's charming grandchildren .
Billi is tough. Independent.
Don't just follow people.
Hao Hao has always been sensitive.
Now he is an adult.
And getting married!
Grandmother had longed for this day for a long time.
Unfortunately, no one speaks Chinese fluently .
Hao Hao's Chinese is good, he's just shy.
Hao Hao, talk to your grandma in Chinese.
We don't need a fancy reception.
We came to spend time with you.
Seriously!
You came home to get married.
We must prepare a proper banquet !
Ma'am, keep it simple. No need for luxury.
Enough!
Everything is booked.
Last week I sent out invitations.
My only grandson is getting married, we can't be simple.
Hao Hao, makanlah!
Aiko.
Try the meat pie.
Why don't you eat?
IM not hungry.
How could that be? You've been traveling all day.
Eat a lot!
Delicious, right?
Everyone says I'm cute.
What is it?
Feeling unwell?
I am healthy.
Must be jet lag . Uncle will take you to the hotel first.
Hotel?
Why can't I stay here?
Many will visit. It is more convenient if we stay at the hotel.
Uncle will take you.
Do not worry. The hotel is comfortable. New hotel.
Take it easy. Lots of work before the wedding.
Uncle talked to a cancer specialist in Japan.
Uncle brought medicine for your grandmother.
From a Japanese doctor?
From the Internet.
Nai Nai ...
Nai Nai loves you very much, you know that?
I know.
Nai Nai is seriously ill.
I know.
He did not know his illness.
I know.
Don't you tell him.
I know!
Dad told me!
You will be sad.
But...
no matter how sad you feel...
don't tell him.
I know.
It's not much time.
I know.
We don't plan on telling him.
I know.
You can't tell him.
I know.
What do you mean the elevator is broken?
Isn't this hotel just opened?
Excuse me sir. Still under repair.
Please come this way.
I'll take the suitcase. Forgive me.
- Billi. - Hm-mm?
- Are you okay by yourself? - Yes.
- See you later. - Okay.
- Take it easy. - Certain.
- We want the same room - All right.
Are we almost there?
Almost!
Are you visiting from abroad?
Yes.
Which country?
America.
America?
You don't look like an American.
What's going on home?
Wedding.
Who's getting married?
My cousin ... "tang di" -ku.
Oh, your cousin.
He's also from America?
No, Japan.
Japan? What work in Japan?
Who knows.
My uncle paints.
Thank you.
What is your father's job in America?
He's a translator.
Do you have drinking water?
Yes! It has a heater.
Okay.
It does not matter. Thank you.
Which do you think is better? China or America?
Different.
What do you mean different? Definitely better in America.
Anyway... different.
You must be more used to America, right?
It seems like.
All right, if you need anything, just call me.
Okay, thank you.
Thank you.
He has!
Ho!
Ha! Ho!
Let's follow grandma!
Ha! Ho!
He has! He has!
Seriously!
Try harder.
This will cleanse the poison.
He has! He has!
Inhale for fresh oxygen to enter.
Understand?
- Yes. - Come on together.
Inhale.
He has! He has!
Haha.
Stronger!
Open your eyes! Raise your chest!
Okay, got it.
- You understand? - I understand!
You can also pat your hand.
Pat your back.
Pat my ass?
Stupid boy!
Clap your feet, smooth the circulation.
- Understand? - Understand.
You can practice it when you return to America!
Useful for you! Believe me!
Try again!
Inhale...
He has! He has!
It does not matter. Grandma can.
Grandma went up and down by herself every morning.
Grandma's leg doesn't hurt?
Even though she was sick, Grandma had to keep practicing.
That's why Grandma is healthy. Even at this age.
- I heard you came home! - Hi, Auntie!
- You remember Bao? - Bao, say hello!
Little Bao, you've grown!
I'm not little Bao!
Just bao!
Oh, Bao is coming!
YuPing, sit down!
Jian.
There's something strange about Haiyan. You noticed?
His face looked pale.
It seems sad.
She's fine, ma'am.
He looks very tired.
Is he still drinking?
Don't let him drink. Alcohol is bad for health.
I heard a lot of men here are drunk to death.
He rarely drank.
Is it okay at home?
Everything is fine, ma'am.
I know you guys have had problems in the past...
At our age can there be any more problems?
It's just a vitamin.
Your uncle bought grandma from Japan.
He said expensive.
So it must be good.
The Japanese are really good at taking care of their health!
Mr. Li, is it over?
Don't mind him. He is.
His job is to eat and then leave.
Don't care about the surroundings.
Hear...
I know you all are happy to meet me.
But let's not forget our purpose here.
This wedding is a grand event.
If anyone asks ...
don't tell me Hao Hao and the candidate have only been dating for 3 months.
Mom, I told you, Aiko is not pregnant.
Just in case. Know for yourself how people think.
I don't want people gossiping behind my back.
If anyone asks ...
Let's just say they 've been dating for 6 months.
Why 6 months? Just say a year.
Great idea.
A year is better. We agreed on a year.
Hear...
The wedding is in 3 days.
Someone must accompany me to see the reception hall.
Just me!
No, you won't be of much help!
Ma'am, I'm with you.
No, you just rest.
Look at your face. Not right.
Mom, why don't you just rest? I'll just go.
I have to go alone.
You don't even know who to meet.
What can I help you with?
You don't have to bother. You also look unwell.
Must be jet lag .
This.
I'll take them to the massage parlor.
Oh good!
You can relax.
You can't be sick before the reception.
Eat, eat, eat!
When I booked the show...
You said the menu was lobster.
Now you say you don't know?
I don't know about that. On the menu it says crab, not lobster.
I know it says crab, but I ordered lobster!
Okay. I ask first.
Little Ping! Little Ping!
Call the chef!
Fast!
Let's take a look at the alcohol selection.
There's baijiu, red wine, white wine, beer...
We brought champagne.
Champagne?
Your brother bought it.
Looks delicious and expensive.
The Chinese wo n't drink it.
Pesan baijiu!
Mrs. Zhao said he was told the menu had lobster, not crab.
Not lobster, but crab.
What kind of scam is this?
When I ordered, you guys said lobster.
We already paid the advance.
Now 3 days before the event...
you guys changed it without telling us.
I don't know. I was asked to cook crab.
Ma'am, don't be upset about this.
I'm okay. Just need a break.
So what about scholarships?
There is not anything.
Still haven't heard from?
Not yet.
When will they tell?
I don't know, Dad.
How are your finances?
Just fine.
Can you pay for this trip?
Yes, no problem.
You need help?
No, I'm fine.
All ready. Let.
This way.
Mei nu , what kind of treatment do you want ?
His Chinese is not good.
Just give me a full body massage
- Cupping too? - Complete package.
- You're the same, mei nu ? - I don't need cupping.
What is May Nu ?
It means beautiful.
Always called, mei nu, mei nu .
All Chinese are called the may.
Old or young. Beautiful or ugly.
Everything is beautiful! So silly!
Sir, how about you?
You can call me beautiful.
What do you mean by treatment?
I recommend the massage and bath treatments.
The tub is full of spices.
How?
Why ask me?
Ask yourself if you want to take a shower.
- Can you show me the tub? - Sure, please.
Aunt, I thought it was a massage!
Just be cool.
A little pain is normal, otherwise it won't work.
Bibi.
Why don't we tell Nai Nai?
What for?
Oh, it hurts! Why?
It's a sleeping point. You didn't sleep well.
Have you been stressed lately? Try to relax.
What if he had to take care of something?
He has no such thing.
What if...
does he want to say goodbye?
Say goodbye?
That's too sad.
Why do you think he wants to go through that?
Right now he looks normal.
If you tell him, it will spoil his mood, won't it?
Mei nu , closer to him.
Closer! He told you to come closer!
Lean your head on his shoulder.
Hao Hao, peluk dia.
Your hand ...
Hold him.
Now smile.
What is wrong with this woman?
Can't be like a normal couple in love?
The woman has no passion. Not like our family.
I just want to hug I have to shout.
I was thinking what they were like in bed.
Nai Nai, how sweet she is.
He's stupid. Grandma doesn't like it.
He doesn't know anything.
He didn't understand because he couldn't speak Chinese.
No, he's stupid, he's stupid.
Billi.
Look at you.
Intelligent. Beautiful.
You have to find someone who can take care of you.
I can take care of myself, Nai Nai.
You're young, son.
The older you get, the better it will be for someone to take care of you.
Is Mr. Li is taking care of you?
So being independent is also important.
Women must be independent.
Stupid boy.
Cute!
Grandma won't forget ...
when your parents took you home when you were only 2 years old.
You're so skinny...
because of the naughty nanny who stole your eggs.
He takes you around town...
and only gives you ice cubes.
- You remember? - No. Why did he steal my eggs?
In the past, eggs were rationed.
Your parents saved it for you.
The past few days have been very busy.
We haven't talked much.
Oh, sorry. We got lost. Sorry.
Do you know...
This marriage is very important.
Many friends and relatives will come.
They haven't seen you since childhood!
Grandma knows you have a lot on your mind,
But at the reception you can't be awkward.
You have to look kind. And polite.
When you meet someone, you have to say hello loudly.
"Hello, Uncle! Hello, Aunt!"
Jangan seperti "Nio ne ne nio."
Apa itu "ni nio ne ne"?
- You don't know? - No.
You see.
Understand?
If someone asks you to sing, don't answer;
I can't sing, I don't wanna sing.
It will make the atmosphere awkward.
Okay.
Promise me you won't be like that.
When you get married...
Grandma will have a bigger reception .
We very rarely get together.
Just look at your mother's face.
I am happy.
Cheers.
Billi, have you ever thought about moving to China?
Many foreigners move here to get rich.
In America, how long does it take to make a million dollars?
It's been a long time.
Really?
In China it is very easy.
Right.
Life is not just about money.
Money can't buy everything.
But money is not a barrier.
There are things that money can't buy but can still be enjoyed.
If it's easy to get rich here,
why did you send Bao to study in America?
To find more opportunities.
What kind of opportunity?
Maybe after coming to America, Bao didn't care about money.
Like Billy. He prefers to do what he likes.
You don't have to worry,
Billi will be rich if he becomes a successful writer!
You invested in his talent.
So raising a child is like playing stock?
What does it mean?
They say you're like a stock and you'll...
makes us rich.
We can't expect that, can we?
You're a losing stock.
You know...
When we first moved to America, we were invited by friends to church.
When going home after the service...
Billi suddenly stopped in front of the piano.
He wanted to play the piano, but Haiyan stopped him.
Then the priest came...
and Haiyan explained that Billi used to play the piano in China.
After moving, we couldn't afford to...
so Billi stopped playing.
The priest just left without saying anything.
When he came back he gave us the keys and said,
"This is the key to the church.
Take Billi to play the piano whenever he wants."
Really?
They just gave you the keys?
That is America.
Mom, that church doesn't represent all of America.
America has a lot of problems.
Weapon. Health benefits.
If it's good in China, why don't you move here?
In China there are many advantages.
We are not really useless.
Of course. Roast duck is still delicious.
Enough!
However, you can't disparage China.
Don't forget, you're still Chinese.
Technically, we are Americans.
I mean, we have American passports.
I will always be Chinese.
It doesn't matter where you live or what passport.
You may think that living outside China is more profitable,
But what do you think about your mother?
Aging without the company of his children.
Stop it!
You all go home, let's talk about nice things.
But YuPing...
You keep telling Bao to study in America?
He'll be back. Wouldn't stay there.
You can't guarantee it.
Even at the risk of not coming back...
You still told him to study there, didn't you?
So how's your piano playing, Billi?
I don't play anymore.
Go home, I'm fine.
Leaving you coughing like this?
Don't worry.
The flu hasn't healed yet.
Don't tell kids.
- Don't let them worry. - I'm not going to say anything.
- Lock the door. - Well.
Go home, Sis.
All right, Auntie. See you there.
What is it?
Nai Nai went to the hospital.
- What happened? - Who knows.
Billi, this is the wrong way.
Just this way.
- We have to turn around. - Said he could.
Where do we want to go?
Do you know where we're going?
- This way - My umbrella...
- Is this the right way? - Yes.
Are you sure?
This?
Why did you all come?
You told them?
I told you not to tell anyone!
You always blame me!
You can't just disappear ...
without telling us.
I'm fine!
I'll find a doctor.
Why? Are you guys serious?
I'm just here to change my medicine.
No problem.
Nai Nai.
Grandma is sick?
Just a little cough.
The last time I had the flu, I didn't get well.
I just want to change my medicine.
Maybe it will be more effective.
Doctor.
Let's see.
Inhale.
Take it out.
Cough.
There is a slight infection.
I've been taking antibiotics!
You gave me an ineffective drug.
Give me what works, so I can get well soon.
This is my grandson. Two days to get married.
Really? Congratulations.
This is my granddaughter. He's from America.
Visiting from America?
I studied in England for several years.
Oh, cool.
Where do you live?
I'm in New York.
New York. I've always wanted to go to New York.
Very beautiful city.
Yes, very beautiful...
Question...
do you know my grandmother's condition?
What are you guys discussing?
He studied in England so he could speak English.
Really?
Right.
Dr. Song, I want to ask...
you are married?
Not yet.
Very handsome young man, and a doctor...
and can speak English.
Not married yet? Impossible!
This!
How bad is it?
You can tell the truth.
The cancer is pretty bad.
Shouldn't he be told?
In his condition, most families in China would...
choose not to tell.
When my grandmother had cancer, my family didn't tell her either.
Isn't lying wrong?
If it's for good, not really a lie.
Still it's a lie.
Good lie.
How is your grandmother?
He was dead, a few months after being diagnosed.
Mrs. Zhao, you had pneumonia a few months ago.
I'm guessing your cough is because of the pain.
You need an X-ray to make sure...
the infection does not spread.
No need. I just want to change medicine.
We can change the medicine.
But I still recommend x-rays.
Maybe now we should tell him.
We can start making plans.
When the time comes...
who will take care of him?
He doesn't need to know our plan.
You know, in America, what we do is prohibited.
Not allowed.
It...
Illegal. What is the term illegal here?
Illegal. In America, this is illegal.
It's not America here...
It's not time to tell him yet.
How did grandma know?
Anyway know.
If Nai Nai knew we were all lying, would n't he be angry?
How do you want to be angry?
He had experienced it himself!
What do you mean?
When your grandfather had cancer, Nai Nai lied to him too.
When Grandma finds out that Grandpa's time is drawing near...
that's when he told grandpa.
When your Nai Nai reaches that point,
I will tell grandma.
Ellen!
Ellen, Ellen Kecil!
Sing for us!
Ellen, sing again!
Mr. Li, take the Maotai we saved!
Ma'am, there will be a lot of alcohol at the reception.
Just keep the Maotai.
What do I save for?
Know your two sons yourself! They can't stop.
Haiyan's heart was already troubled.
The doctor told him to stop drinking.
- Where to keep it? - In the kitchen drawer.
The two of them rarely saw each other.
If they want to drink, don't be banned!
We celebrate. Drink!
Your mother always told me to take care of you...
but if he himself gets you drunk, he doesn't care about your health.
Ma'am, can you please don't talk about this?
Every time you drink, you overdo it.
This!
Who's drunk? I'm not drunk.
Can't we talk about this?
My mother gave me a drink. I drink for my mother!
Alright, alright.
Let him.
Billi, the key.
Nai Nai should not take care of this marriage.
If he enjoys it, let it be.
He is sick.
He should be resting in the hospital.
No stress dealing with fake marriages.
You really don't understand your Nai Nai.
He always enjoyed playing orders here and there.
Make him feel important.
Makes him feel in control.
- Ma'am. - That's right!
That's why he doesn't like living in our home in America.
Do you know?
Because he can't order people.
Whatever mother did, it would not be enough according to her.
But he couldn't complain because he stayed at mom's house.
Ma'am, enough!
What? What did you say?
Mom always had problems with grandma, but right now...
I have no problem with him.
He's the one with the problem with mom.
He's seriously ill.
Can you be more sensitive?
So what should the mother do?
Whining and crying like you?
When my father died, my mother was also very sad.
But I don't act like you.
When mother returned to China to attend the funeral,
everyone pays attention to mom.
They thought mother would look miserable.
They think that if mom doesn't cry, it means they don't love dad.
No one made you cry!
Don't be loud!
Mother doesn't like, venting emotions in public,
like being in a zoo.
But here, if you don't cry, you're considered...
don't love your family.
Here there is even a professional weeping rental.
To show how sad they are.
That's so ridiculous. Mom doesn't like it.
Your grandpa likes bananas. Give me a banana.
You have to peel the oranges!
I don't think it needs to be peeled.
Must be peeled!
Otherwise he wouldn't be able to eat it.
Should I drink?
Just water it.
Yes, flush. Nice.
Billi, put down the cake.
Open it first!
- Should it be opened too? - Yes, open it!
- Pretelin the flowers! - Why should it be stripped down?
Let it not be stolen.
Some stole offerings to put in their family's graves.
This way they won't be able to steal it.
Don't give cigarettes! He's stopped!
He hasn't stopped.
Already!
A few weeks before he died, he quit.
Dad just said it, even though it hasn't stopped!
Mom, let him smoke.
He's dead, what's next?
Enjoy the cigarettes, Dad.
Burn the jacket for your grandfather.
Don't let him get cold in the winter.
Ancestors, we have all come to pray.
Our grandson is getting married tomorrow.
We came to ask for ancestral blessings
We ask the ancestors to bless Hao Hao and his future wife.
Bless them with happiness.
Bless their children with health and strength.
Sincerely.
Yours twice.
Regards three times.
Ancestors, you guys left us so soon.
Why did you leave us so quickly ?
Wherever you are...
We wish you happiness and peace.
Sincerely.
Yours twice.
Regards three times.
Bless our two sons with success in their endeavors.
Sincerely.
Yours twice.
Regards three times.
Who else?
May Billi be blessed.
With a happy future.
Sincerely.
Yours twice.
Regards three times.
Still respect?
We can get dizzy!
Bless my little sister. Hope he ...
I hope I win big playing Mahjong!
Bless your nephew, YuPing.
Dan Bao.
Bless him good luck in the exam.
Bao, ayo!
When my time comes, sprinkle my ashes in the ocean.
No one will go home either.
What do you mean? I am at home!
Anyway sprinkle in the sea.
So you don't come back again.
To sea? Illogical!
- You don't agree? - Certainly not.
We are Chinese.
Man must return to his origin.
Wait! This seems familiar.
It's the old NaiNai neighborhood.
You remember that house?
You used to love playing in his garden.
Where?
It's over.
Can we go back? I want to see!
There's nothing to see.
The area has been absent for a long time. I don't even recognize him anymore.
That's it, that's it, that's enough.
- Enough? - Yes.
Be careful, don't overheat.
Father?
Daddy smokes?
I thought dad had quit.
Already.
Dad will stop.
Don't give him cigarettes!
Don't bother with him.
He's your father. Don't set him up.
Go to sleep, Billy.
Forget it.
What are you talking about?
There is not any.
Will you tell Nai Nai?
I can't, Billy.
I dare not go against my family.
Billi.
There are things you must understand...
You moved to the West a long time ago.
You think a person's life is his own.
But that's the difference between East and West culture.
In the East, one's life is part of the whole.
Family.
Public.
You want to be honest with Nai Nai...
because you're afraid to take responsibility for him.
Because it's a very heavy burden.
If you tell...
You don't have to feel guilty.
We didn't tell Nai Nai ...
because it is our duty to carry this emotional burden for him.
Billi, don't just stand there. Help find Aiko's earrings.
Fall where?
Not far.
Hao Hao.
Where's Aiko from?
The earrings are light, so they might be thrown far away.
-Bu? -Ya?
I want to live in China and take care of Nai Nai.
What?
What can you do here?
You can't cook, you can't clean.
Your Chinese just isn't fluent. What can you do?
This, isn't it, Hao Hao?
Thank you!
I'll try later, ma'am.
Suppose you live here.
So what?
Wait until he dies?
How's your scholarship?
Forget it, okay?
You are 30 years old, want to leave your life just like that...
and live here?
And every day he has to look at you, with that sad face of yours?
That's not good for people to see, understand?
You know, one of my beautiful childhood memories,
is summer at Nai Nai's house.
They still have a garden.
Ye Ye and I chased the dragonfly.
Then we moved to America.
Everything change.
Everything's gone.
And only the three of us.
I know it's hard.
Hard for us too.
I want to believe that it's a good thing,
but all I saw was fear in my mother's eyes.
And I'm confused and scared all the time...
because my mother never told me what happened.
Then Ye Ye died.
Mom didn't even tell him she was sick.
So he's like ...
disappeared suddenly.
Mom wouldn't even let me go to her funeral.
You have to go to school.
We don't want you to skip school.
We do what we think is best for you.
But I never saw him again.
And every time I go to China,
he is no longer there.
Then I came back and disappeared.
His house is gone, A Die is gone, our Beijing house is gone and...
soon grandma will be gone too.
Guest first!
Strive for perfection!
Which is romantic!
Be history!
Be a witness to happiness!
Activate your life!
We welcome you!
Billi!
Hello, Aunt!
Have you got the X-ray?
Not yet, I'll pick it up tomorrow.
Tomorrow is Sunday. We have to wait until Monday.
So I'll pick it up Monday. Do not be afraid.
Welcome back to Changchun everyone!
It doesn't matter if you're from America, Japan...
or any country.
The important thing is that we are all one family.
Citizens of the earth.
From the solar system.
From the Milky Way galaxy.
Just remember this!
You will always have a home in Changchun.
We will always, welcome you.
We will always, welcome you!
Raise your glasses y'all, let's toast.
If you come back to Changchun...
You will eat well, drink well and be happy!
That way, you'll remember to come home more often!
- Cheers! - Happy drinking!
Everyone please continue eating.
Don't mind me.
As the eldest son, I would like to convey...
a few words on behalf of myself and my brother.
My sister and I...
haven't been home together in over 25 years.
Today I am very happy.
We welcome Aiko into our family.
Hopefully in the future we can come back...
by bringing the baby.
Since my sister and I have been away from home...
we are very grateful to all of you who take care of my mother
YuPing...
over the years, you've taken care of my mother.
Take care of her like your own mother.
I'm very grateful to you.
Really, very grateful.
But...
The person I want to thank the most...
is my mother.
This...
Forgive me.
All this time I was not by your side.
All...
all my achievements ...
is your service.
This...
mom is the best mom in the world!
Thank you.
Forgive me.
I'm just too happy today.
Thank you happily.
Does everyone know?
I think a lot of people don't know.
But I'm not sure.
By?
Eat again.
He said,
"Thank you for coming to our wedding."
He said,
"I'm so happy to celebrate with all of you."
He said,
"Hao Hao is a sweet man, and very kind."
The battle before us. The enemies are in the way!
We only have a few left.
Then, I said...
I used to use my self-defense skills.
I killed 5 at once!
This is my grandson!
She's beautiful!
Married?
Not yet.
Career first, then marriage!
These three grandfathers used to be soldiers with grandmother.
Now they are important government officials.
Yes, that's right.
We are long retired.
Little Ting ...
I see you're still limping.
Was it because of a gunshot wound during the war?
Do you remember?
How could I forget?
Back then, I had a plan.
After the war...
I want to propose you to be my wife!
But then you got hurt.
And Comrade Wang took you home.
It's been a long time!
Only now did you confess your love?
If I don't say it now, I'll be holding it to death.
You drink too much.
I better say it, do n't you think, Little Ting?
Little Tin? I'm Old Ting.
Back this time...
You should talk to your grandma more often .
You drank too much.
What do you mean?
Billi, come up and give a welcome.
Hi all.
As you know, I was a kid when I left China.
My Chinese is not good. Forgive me.
That's good! Continue!
Thank you.
I almost didn't go back.
I'm busy working.
But...
I'm still back.
In America...
we don't have many families.
I miss you all.
I'm so happy to be back.
I am very happy...
celebrate with all of you.
Thank you.
Sorry.
Sorry, how do you say congratulations? Father?
Gong xi!
Gong xi Hao Hao Aiko! Terima kasih.
♪ And so I came to see her ♪
♪ And listen for a while ♪
♪ And there he was this young boy ♪
♪ A stranger to my eyes ♪
♪ Strumming my pain with his fingers ♪
♪ Singing my life with his words ♪
Bibi?
It must be hard taking care of your sister for so long.
Then you have to think more about yourself.
No need to worry about me.
I already have a plan.
After he's gone ...
I'm going to Shenzhen to live with my husband.
There he worked alone for many years.
The situation is not easy.
I haven't been able to accompany him.
As soon as he retires, we will be able to travel together.
Aunt can visit us in America.
So true. I always wanted to visit your house.
If Auntie visits, we will take Aunt for a walk.
We'll take you wherever you like.
Good! Would have been nice!
Look, you don't have to worry about auntie.
I'm fine.
Everyone stand tall!
Look at the camera!
Why are you crying? Drink too much?
Don't take a picture of the bride crying.
What are you crying about?
He's okay. Those are happy tears.
Right, isn't it, Hao Hao?
Can you take a photo with my camera too?
Sis, where's my camera?
I gave it to Mrs. Gao. In his bag.
Where is he?
I sent him to the hospital to get my test results.
Everyone says "eggplant!"
One two Three!
Eggplant!
- Taking test results? - Upstairs.
Mrs. Gao!
Why did you come here?
- Did you take it? - The test results? Yes.
How? How is the result?
Who knows. I don't understand Chinese.
You didn't read it?
I can't read. I don't go to school.
How should I replace it? What do you want me to write?
Just turn it into a benign tumor.
What it means?
That means it's not bad.
Okay.
See.
I told you I'm fine.
Don't give me money.
Take.
Just take it.
Grandma gave Hao Hao, so should give you too.
I am not married.
Precisely because of that.
If you're already living on your own, Grandma can't be of much help.
Take it, my son.
Don't use it for things like paying rent.
Buy something useful.
I don't want to go.
You must come back.
Grandma knows you always think about grandma.
But grandma has taken the new medicine...
and grandma is getting better.
You have a lot to do.
You still have a long way to go.
IM very proud of you.
I failed to get a scholarship.
Really?
You just got news?
Last week.
I didn't tell Grandma, because...
don't want grandma to worry.
Grandma wasn't worried.
You'll be fine, son.
Grandma is experienced in life and should advise you.
You will face many trials, but you must open your mind.
Don't be a bull who always...
poked his horn into the corner of the room.
Life isn't just about what you do.
but rather how you live it.
You're a smart boy.
You will be successful.
Grandma really okay?
Yes, really.
Why did grandma have to lie?
You stupid!
Come on, you could miss your flight!
Grandma doesn't have to go down!
I'm fine! I am coming along!
Don't cry, Nai Nai.
No, no.
Stupid kid! Grandma didn't cry.
- You don't cry. - I'm not crying.
I will visit grandma again.
Grandma knows. We'll meet again soon.
Go, don't linger.
Grandma couldn't stand it. Prey.
Go on, get in the car.
- Take care, Mom. - I'll take care of myself.
- Come back inside, Mom! - I'll come in after you guys get in the car!
Come on up, ma'am! It's cold!
Hurry up, you might miss your flight.
All right, my son.
He has!!
Ha! Ho! Ha! Ho!
6 Years After Being Diagnosed, Nai Nai Is Still With Us
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